cant let go

In response to: "something wrong with me" 408 days old
by Zappy5971 [Member]

Sweetheart. Grief is a funny thing. It can take months or even years to get over. Don't beat yourself up, but try really hard to remember the good times. Love never dies. My thoughts are with you. ((((hugs)))) more…

In response to: "heartaches and happiness." 535 days old
by Loupie-Lou [Member]

God Life is so unfair, my daughters best friends mother 46 brain haemorrhage last week.

But sounds you have lot to smile about that beautiful baby, a hug from her and I am sure the world becomes a better place.

My best wishes to you.

Lou
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In response to: "trying" 573 days old
by freedreams [Member]

Hi Katie,

I went to bed early last night so didnt get your comment till today, and I would just like to say Thank you so much for your support and thoughts. You are right about it being a roller coaster and at the moment I feel as if I am riding around the bottom and just waiting to go up...and I just hope it will be soon.
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In response to: "trying" 574 days old
by katie1159 [Member]

Hiya

I wrote you a whole long answer last night but I lost it so please forgive me for not rewriting sooner.

I don’t believe you can put a time scale on grief – its not something you ‘get over’ its something to learn to live with one day at a time.

Like you I put on the happy smiling face in public – no one (I more…

In response to: "cant let go" 594 days old
by freedreams [Member]

Hi Emma,
just to say thanks a million for your words and thoughts, I write my blog because people think I should be getting over Steves passing, but I am finding it difficult cause you never think your children will go first. I can at least express my feelings on paper and dont have to feel guilty for the way I feel.
Thanks again
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In response to: "good news" 594 days old
by katie1159 [Member]

It does happen and will happen for ever I think - things jog your memory - there's just no getting away from it.

Glad little Sophia is doing better - I must have been away when you posted she was not well sorry.

My thoughts are with you xxx more…

In response to: "cant let go" 600 days old
by sameold [Member]

Hi again,

Just got to they end of your post's and I have now realised it was your son..I am a very sorry to hear about his passing, but honestly please believe me, I know that he is alway's around you and he walks with you along path you go.

His wheelchair is not there anymore and he walk's with you along, the long green g more…

In response to: "cant let go" 600 days old
by sameold [Member]

Hi,

I have only been reading your blog's to this point..And I cant wait to read further on, and find out who Steve is - I can feel deep in my heart that you love him deeply, but I decided to stop at this point, because you were talking about that T.V show. And I for one definatly know that there is life after death, and that all our lo more…

In response to: "welcome" 600 days old
by moonwoman [Member]

Congratulations! We were thrilled when our last grandchild arrived and she was a girl. We love the others as well of course, but there is just something so special about female energy. I've told our son that when she was born he was going to have a love affair with her that will last a lifetime. Now as a 1 1/2 year old our son agrees with me. more…

In response to: "welcome" 609 days old
by katie1159 [Member]

Congratulations Grandma on the safe arrival of Sophia (what a pretty name)

I can't wait till my baby granddaughter is well enough for me to hold - such special moment aren't they.

Hope the wind doesn't cause too much damage

Take care

Katie

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In response to: "cant let go" 636 days old
by katie1159 [Member]

Ok not sure how this works but I tag you



a. list seven habits/quirks/facts about yourself
b. tag seven people to do the same
c. do not tag the person who tagged you or say that you tag "whoever wants to do it
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In response to: "cant let go" 636 days old
by katie1159 [Member]

So glad you're back I've missed reading your blog

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In response to: "cant let go" 646 days old
by moonwoman [Member]

Hopefully you will share with others what passages from Sylvia Browne are helping you through the process of letting go and living on. Many blessings to you! more…

In response to: "cant let go" 647 days old
by moonwoman [Member]

Oh good for you! Your story reminds me of a friend of mine who was questioning me about the afterlife. Her mother had passed on years ago. Suddenly she was finding dimes all over the place . under plates when she knew she had cleaned the tables; on her car seat, etc. Linda remembered how her mother always saved dimes to give her grandkids; never more…

In response to: "cant let go" 649 days old
by moonwoman [Member]

Many people receive Phone calls from heaven when their loved ones pass over. You might want to read some of the books by Sylvia Browne.

Your son would not want you grieving him. His energy is still around you. Smudge and let him go, cherishing the loving memories. Read my blog today to help you move on with living life!

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In response to: "cant let go" 663 days old
by katie1159 [Member]

Thank you - sometimes I worry I intrude on people leaving the few comments I have but your words touch me and I just can't help myself.

I think we have to 'relpy to comment' at the bottom of the box - I'm still getting used to it - hope that helps.

Take care

Katie
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In response to: "cant let go" 664 days old
by freedreams [Member]

Thankyou so so much for your kind words and lovely thoughts, I really do have some wonderful memories to cherish, and I know he is always about what with the phone calls, names on computers and this morning....our alarm clock wakes us up usually with a musical rendition but this morning it went off an hour earlier with a beep beep beep. He really l more…

In response to: "cant let go" 664 days old
by katie1159 [Member]

I so wish I had the words of wisdom or comfort but no words make it better - I didn't realise until my husband died how precious our memories are - Have you any plans for the annivesary? I went to our favorite place for the day and I was so glad I did.

Stay strong and remember someone miles away is thinking about you and your family xx more…

In response to: "cant let go" 678 days old
by katie1159 [Member]

I am so sorry to keep bothering you but as I read your last entry my heart pounded. I've writen a book - which I have sent to a limited number of agents and been rejected BUT you have given me hope and I will send some more copies out over the next few days........why is this anything to do with your post? My book is about recieving phone calls fro more…

In response to: "cant let go" 679 days old
by katie1159 [Member]

You are absolutly more than welcome - I understand where you are coming from.

Take care

Katie
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In response to: "cant let go" 679 days old
by rowtheboat [Member]

I think you've hit the nail on the head.

Think of what he would want for you and remember that moving on doesn't mean that you're forgetting him or devaluing him in any way. You will always love him and he will always be your son.

It's the people who are around you now who need you to make the most of your time with them.< more…

In response to: "cant let go" 680 days old
by katie1159 [Member]

Hello

Your post moved me - a year is no time at all - I've learnt to take each day as it comes and never to worry about tomorrow or what people think I should now be doing.

Yes life does go on but there are no rules to grief - no time scale to live by & it is hard - very hard.

I write too so as not to both more…